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Ego be Gone
How to lose your ego and Evolve
( a most profound & detailed explanation )
Whether you believe it or not, the ego is one of the Main problems for the people of Earth,
it's the one thing that keeps most people from wanting to Understand, from changing their way's, from a life of ignorance and self righteousness,
to a life of Integrity Harmony Freedom, a higher consciousness, to understand the principles of the “higher perspectives”, and thus Christ-consciousness.
It has been my observation for some years now since I've been studying the ego phenomenon and working to find the correct ways to Resolve the problem, that whenever the subject of the ego comes to surface, with whom ever I have spoken to about the ego problem, that either many or even most people immediately go into “defensive” mode,
and instantly coming up with a plethora of arguments and excuses for the ego being a vital part of their life, and other examples for why they insist on keeping and protecting their ego.
Empathically it's like we feel & see them putting up a “firewall” or a “massive brick wall” in front of themselves, almost in panic.
This behaviour is an “A” typical example of how the ego controls the thinking & behaviour of a person, attempting with what ever means possible to protect itself and stay in control.
The ego has become a “problem”, an even greater problem than I had at first assumed.
In this explanation I will give you the insight on the Ego,
how it effects your consciousness evolution, how it could hinder your evolution,
and how to get rid of it.
Firstly, the Human ego is a product derived from the influence of one’s surroundings, a “mirror” quasi, of the society in general of which the Person is a part,
if the society is one of Multidimensional structure with no attest to any real Negative behaviour, then there will be no basis for an Ego to manifest, “a negative ego”.
For often it is explained there is a negative and a positive ego, the positive ego being the inner-child consciousness.
But, if one lives in a society characterized by a substantial magnitude of negativity,
then that will manifest itself as it's reflection within the Inner Child.
(only for simplicity will I term the negative ego simply as -ego)
To get rid of the ego, it is first important to understand the structure of the ego,
As the ego is in actuality nothing more than a False Mask of the inner child,
(it doesn’t even know what it does)
It is a “Farce”, a charade that your inner child has placed in front of itself as it’s only known means of protection against the social environment that has proven harmful to the inner child.
But the Mask itself is not the greatest problem, it is the effective Negative strength and power the mask attains from the social environment around it, which gives the ego-Mask enough to increase itself, until it becomes an individual Consciousness of its own,
The “inner child” is in actuality your own physical body-consciousness,
It is comparable to an immeasurably complex Android,
The body itself is an organic Machine, which has a central control system which is the Brain, the brain is so complex that it is fully capable of emotions, and it’s entirely own consciousness structure, when the body is brought to Life by a Soul.
It contains the genetically transferred information from the parents,
information that is genetically conveyed over many generations,
but that is only part of the person that you are,
the other part is also the most important, it is You, your Soul.
When you are born, or rather shortly before, your soul is placed within the child body, your Soul has had many lives before, more than you could count actually.
After the birth, there is a time that I refer to as the “Jet lag”,
since the effect is perhaps similar to a very bad case of jetlag,
a period of time the Soul will need to accumulate to the New Life within a new Body.
After the Soul starts to overcome the effects of the birth, it begins normally to take over the command of the body, but without “overtaking” the body like an invader, and not without considering the right of the body consciousness to have a say,
thus both the Soul and the body achieve a compromise, a symbiosis,
from which a Third Consciousness is established.
This third consciousness is the one the outer world will see,
It is the personality brought forth through the symbiosis of body and Soul,
normally this would function perfectly, the body accepts the experienced consciousness of the soul as a Mentor or Parent figure, since the Soul has many many billions of years of life experience, and the body has only just existed for a few years, this is why the body is basically known as the “inner child”,
It will always remain a child, in every sense of the word, it will always think like a child,
and therefore, it will always react in just the same way a child would react.
That which hurts the child / body will be avoided at all cost,
also that which may hurt the Soul will be avoided, even at the cost of making a big mistake, since the body is a child, and cannot think like an adult,
even the life experiences of an adult body will not suffice to hinder any childlike mistakes, since the complexity of a body consciousness is never as pronounced as that of a Soul consciousness of such great age.
To give you a small insight, the probable age of “your” Soul lies between
10 –22 Billion Years of Life Experience.
When children are confronted with situations they cannot understand or control, and which are of very negative nature, that hurt especially emotionally,
they will tend to seek refuge behind an object or a person either real or fictitious,
this is where the concept of the Mask comes in.
As the Soul will also tend to manifest often harsh and painful life-situations that may, by great probability, be part of the “life-blueprint” which the Soul has, in order to be confronted with the necessary situations for Soul learning purposes,
whereas the inner child may most probably not understand this aspect of the Souls needs, it will as any child, attempt to hinder these uncomforting life-scenarios, and in this process, will build the ego to attempt a compensation situation, to at least moderate the painful situation.
As the body is still in child age, and the soul is still suffering from jetlag, there can also occur the possibility where the body consciousness has more control over the life than the Soul consciousness for a longer period than expected.
The body will remain the for-controlling consciousness, thus the body will remain in control for as long as the soul is still indisposed (the timespan for this phenomenon is very differing from one person to the next),
thus most decisions in that state will be made by the body consciousness,
and often after the Soul has overcome the jetlag, it might have difficulty convincing the body to give over the main command,
as the body is much too use to being in control, especially when the Soul needs quite a while to rehabilitate from a traumatic birth process, the body is left with the control of the entire life situation on its own, and often this tends to exceed the coping capacity of the body consciousness/inner child.
Often also the soul is already burdened with traumatic experiences from the previous life, which had often also led the death of the previous body,
thus the new body is burdened with the task of coping with its life, and with the problems the Soul has brought with it also.
Picture for instance a small child attempting to keep the house in ship shape form, and looking for food, whilst both parents lie around depressed, probably alcoholized, or drug addicted,
an unfortunately not too uncommon scenario.
Could you understand how the life situations may force a child to build a proverbial Mask or a Wall in front of it, in order to keep what ever may hurt it from entering it’s realm?
This is what almost every single Earth born human has done throughout the eons of human history.
Fear is the greatest foundation for this Mask / Wall which the inner child builds,
It is “then” referred to as the ego!
Especially when the fear-factor grows in complexity, simple fear of physical abuse or resentment at child’s age, grows increasingly to a more complex form of fear.
Fear of losing “Status” within society, founded especially through lack of financial stability, which is the greatest foundation for fear in human society, since the introduction of the monetary system.
Thus a great Mask is established by the inner child, to protect it and it’s Soul from any harm from the outside,
and this “mask” is an ego of unfortunately greatly underestimated size potential,
as depending on the life situation of any given person, especially during their upbringing age, the ego will either be barely noticeable, or up to the greatness of Jupiter, if it’s potential may be related in size.
Here the population can be simply divided into 2 categories,
those with an ego problem,
and those with a real bad ego problem, with almost nothing relating in-between.
As the Inner Child has put a Mask in front of itself in an attempt to block off any uncomforting situations, the environment bombards that Mask (or Wall) with Negativity, as the social environment on earth is quite simply said “mostly unpleasant”, there have always been many hostile and uncomforting situations on earth that are way too much to handle for a Child,
thus the Consciousness of the body will react in the only way it can,
but, when the ego-mask of the body grows in size and strength with time,
and attains (independently to the inner child) it’s very own consciousness,
it will begin to take over part of the brains Storage, nesting itself firmly
within the structure of the brain, just in the same way a computer program gets installed on the Hard-drive,
which means, the ego will, when effectively fed, result in becoming an actual independently functioning consciousness program, but without any form of real self,
just a program that runs independently, that wasn’t intended.
This is where the ego has become a real problem!
It eventually takes over more control, constantly interfering, and should be eliminated.
But the ego is the “construct reaction” of a Child,
it is in no way really as technically complex as a computer program can be,
but far more emotionally/psychologically complex,
which means there are the possibilities of overcoming the problem with “positive” psychological and emotional input.
Remember that the ego will react and think as a child,
afflicted with the negative attributes of the outside social environment.
A normal Child, that has not yet been “influenced” by the negativity of the outside world, will be entirely true, and in need of much love and affection,
but once the outside world has been introduced to the child, it will react as any child will, with “Shock-horror” !!
Most of the outside world shows no want or need of Love and affection, if this is the case,
then the outside world had over countless generations been created by people who were mostly or entirely driven by their ego.
Love, Affection, Attachment, etc, finds no place in such a harsh world of ego-driven people,
the ego will imitate and react exactly as a mirror of the social environment, that had characterised its form.
But remember that the ego is also only a child creation,
but it will react with much hostility to anything it will not understand,
in just the same way most people of earth would,
this behaviour is that of a Child of a hostile world !
How this ego will prevent you from achieving your Soul-Evolution, for which you came to earth in the first place so many eons ago, is very simple to determine,
it will for instance prevent you from understanding your own “spirituality”, your own Real Self, by controlling you, without you even realizing it.
The ego arises through the systematic influx of false information & false beliefs thereof.
That’s why Love & Light polarized people can also have an ego problem, because false information must not necessarily be negative in nature, but can simply be false.
The more false information, the greater the ego will become. Fear is in this situation also a determinative factor.
The ego is a thing that “happens”.
It's not something we want, but just turns up as the result of what we experience.
Transforming negative into positive is the key to resolving the problem.
Toxins of any kind will just help to feed the ego.
So a detoxification on all levels is necessary, as anything we carry in any of our bodies and our Soul that is not in attune with our “highest good”, will be a hindrance in our positive development, and thus our evolution.
As I mentioned earlier, your ego is a charade, it is not even a real consciousness,
(even if it interferes in the thought processes)
it is simply the mask that your inner child has held up most of its life to find a form of protection behind it,
it prevents you from speaking the truth,
your inner child like all children, has realized that lying will often prevent punishment,
a child knows nothing of the necessity of Integrity,
it will not speak the truth if it results in punishment,
even if it will not result in any real or serious form of physical or emotional pain to speak the truth, the fear of eventual punishment is enough to keep the child from speaking the truth.
There we have again the fear-factor!
Truth is inevitable in the process of attaining the consciousness needed for a Soul evolution.
This universe is a 3rd density universe, it is the place where lies are possible, deceit and any other primitive form of thinking also,
any realm/universe beyond the 3rd Dimension is mostly without this possibility,
which quite simply means that anyone wishing to evolve themselves into a higher state of awareness and being, must in order to accomplish this, achieve absolute Integrity, starting with being absolute true to oneself !
If you cannot be true to yourself,
you cannot accomplish any form of higher consciousness.
Your ego must vanish like a puff of smoke, because that’s all it really is !
A whole lot of noise and smoke!
In order to really get rid of you ego, besides being true to yourself and others, and understanding the real structure of what Integrity actually is,
it’s at first important to accept the fact that you actually do have an ego!
Since most people who have an ego problem, start with the assumption that they don’t.
This is the same like any Addict not accepting the problem of the addiction,
Acceptance is the first stage to the cure,
Denial will just pull you in deeper,
No if’s or but’s!
Once you have accepted your egos existence, you will realize “quickly” how it has controlled you most of your life, and you will be looking for ways to get rid of it, and start taking control of your life yourself.
The ego makes you do things you don’t really want to do,
and most often your not even aware of it.
Your ego will attempt with any childlike means to keep you from doing anything to get rid of it !
The ego takes whatever it has on you, whatever skeletons you might have in your closet, and uses that against you, it makes you feel guilty, tries to control you.
“do not let your ego retake control, no matter how hard it tries”
“it’s important to recognize the typical characteristics of the ego, when it attempts to gain or hold control”
Your ego is the product of a negative society,
and as such, it will be vulnerable to any Non-negative action that will dissipate its structure, it will literally crumble through the forthbringing of positive understanding, characteristics and qualities such as “Truth”, “Love”, and the higher understanding of the universal compassion, also known as “Christ-Consciousness”, and Divine Humbleness, which is to be humble without subjugating oneself.
Forgiveness is extremely important in attaining the mindset needed to evolve consciously, as any form of judgemental mindset such as vindictiveness will feed the ego.
Forgiveness for others and oneself is and should be founded on compassionate understanding & Love. Hanging on to a blame or grudge is instant stagnation.
Forgiveness is Healing.
Objectivity is also an important aspect that allows one to stay both rational & open-minded, it is necessary to be objective, as with Humbleness, it also reduces the power of the ego.
You must be unconditionally uncompromising in your actions and thought to transform the ego consciousness into the positive. Your decisions must henceforth be in unison with the want to evolve.
Pay great attention to your thoughts, actions & emotions.
The more Love & prudence we let into ourselves and give out, the lesser the ego will become.
As we use Christ-consciousness to transform the negative thought forms, that is the new mind-set, your Heart guides you in unison with that.
Self-responsibility is the essential condition for resolving the ego problem.
Important is to remember not to act with aggression toward your ego,
as the ego is part of your own mind-consciousness, a part of that consciousness which has gathered the false beliefs & information over the years, and stored that as memory-data like on a computer harddrive. The intent is to transform the false information & false beliefs into the opposite. And re-gain the “data-storage” on your minds “harddrive” so to speak. So avoid attacking or feeling resentment to your own ego, it won't help anyway.
Start off with being absolutely true to yourself.
But remember “The True Self is found in the Heart, and not in the mind ”
Love yourself, and your inner child will respect you absolutely !
And will then allow “you” the Main-Soul to take control of your life.
Because, the Inner Child is not really a separate part of who we are, as the physical Body has no own self Consciousness without the Soul (as I had mentioned earlier, the body consciousness activates as soon as a Soul enters the body), the Soul creates the Inner-Child body-consciousness to interact with the Body, that part of the Soul will then have the task to act independently from the rest of the Soul, to secure the needs of the body, so is the Inner-Child a direct part of ones own Soul.
So when we Love ourselves, we Love our Inner-Child.
It should also be realized that as we become adult & gain experience, so does the inner-child gain experience. Therefore even if the inner-child is still a child, that part of our consciousness will also evolve during our life.
(It may be complicated to understand for some, but the Soul is not simply a single energy entity mad up of a ball or pillar of light, but much more than that, there are many parts to an entire Soul-Matrix, including a profound state of Divinity)
It is the respect for oneself in the highest order, that in combination with the love for all that is, including your own life, and all who may or will inevitably be connected with your life in one way or another,
in which case your inner child will realize that you have no intent to allow it to be hurt in any way, and thus your inner child will see you as the parent figure it had all along hoped you would be, you are then at long last the compassionate Mentor of great accumulated wisdom, which you actually are.
Considering how many lives your Soul has lived, and the experiences derived from those lives, which are not lost, they are kept in safekeeping, until it is time to allow for the information to be manifested, and that time is Now !
Also very important is the aspect of “emotional clearing”,
which is “getting out” all those dysfunctional thought processes from the mind-set,
which are both emotional and psychological.
Releasing of “judgement” is a main part of “clearing”, whether it be self-judgement or judgement of others,
and firstly “we stop beating ourselves”, our inner-child will be very grateful!
Judgement keeps us from feeling and understanding that everyone and everything has worth. And once we relieve ourselves of judgement, “Christ-consciousness” will replace that, It is the understanding of a “higher perspective”, of life, of all our surroundings, and ourselves.
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I have also created an Ascension Assistance Energy Template for Resolving the Ego Problem, the “Ego Be Gone” Template.
And can be found at http://www.davaron2012.com/html/ascension_images.html
in this website.
all Templates are created in unison with the Higher Spiritual Realms as assistance to the Ascension Process, and which can be purchased.
The Ego Be Gone Template is as all Energy Images an “assistance” and not a cure,
The Images are “multidimensional” in nature and Energized by the Archangels and Ascended Masters, from whom I was given the Blueprints to create these Images.
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Important is to identify the characteristics of an ego problem.
Here is a very small list of definitions of ego related behaviour:
* Fear based behaviour, Angst,
* persistence to be someone else other than oneself, pretending,
* argumentativeness,
* quarrelsomeness,
* compulsory behaviour i.e. compulsion to : - correcting others, - finding faults in others,
- seek dispute, etc..
* prejudice,
* ignorance,
* arrogance,
* pretentious behaviour,
* complacency,
* opinionatedness,
* contemptuousness,
* duress, coercion,
* rapacity,
* vindictiveness,
* stubbornness,
* self righteousness,
* pharisaical,
* refusal to admit ones own mistakes,
* refusal to listen to or acknowledge the information or opinions of others,
* refusal of reason, common sense,
* refusal to embrace wisdom, or newer wisdom,
* lack of objectivity,
* unacceptance of other possibilities,
* lack of cautiousness,
* constantly finding or fabricating excuses to defend the ego (the ego has you right where it wants you)
* Fear & or aggressive behaviour toward anything, that would help to resolve the ego problem,
* profuse refusal & dismissal to admitting to having an ego problem,
* care-taking,
* willing to help only in the expectations of self-gain, under pretense,
* unwillingness to embrace Love, from others, for others, or for oneself,
* self abasement, self humiliation, Self abuse,
* self-destructive behaviour,
* etc, etc, etc…
Some Frequently Asked Questions and Answers about the ego :
Q: If I drink alcohol, smoke weed / pot, take drugs, does that make the ego stronger?
A:
The ego (or negative ego, as some call it) is the product of all things negative, that influence ones life, having taken to any form of intoxicants will have often been the influence of the ego, the ego does that as a form of survival,
so yes indeed, that can very much make the ego stronger, the ego has also the tendency to make one "stay dependent" on anything that will keep its hold on one,
and as such, the ego holds one in denial of being influenced by it,
the ego can be very devious,
but make no mistake, an average ego can be "eliminated" by enough influx of positive things which it does not understand, and which it fears, such as "Love" and "Integrity",
and Integrity is a Heart based virtue, the ego will attempt with aggression to influence your embracing of positive things, as the ego fears it's demise.
these are proven facts,
important is also always to remember,
that Love means to always also "Love oneself", which means to do what your Heart tells you to do, and not what the ego tells you to do,
"if your Heart tells you one thing, and your mind tells you something else, then it's best to listen to your Heart"
Q: if I watch TV all day, will that make the ego stronger ?
A:
that depends on why you watch TV all day, if it's for no particular reason, then it might, depending what programs you watch, just think about it, the answer might come to mind,
Q: if I ignore the ego, will that make the ego go away?
A:
that depends, but usually not, if someone ignores the fact that they might or do have an ego or an ego problem, that will mostly not suffice to make the ego disappear, if someone is fully conscious of their ego, and consciously aims to resolve the problem, by doing nothing that may strengthen the ego (giving in to it), whilst ignoring any attempt of the egos retaliations, that will help indeed, as that will take any energy from the ego, and using that energy for far better reasons,
Q: If my life is ok, will I still have an ego ?
A:
An “ok” life is relative, what is an “ok” life?
If you feel really “comfy” with your life, have no problems, and everything just seems to fall in place like a dream, and you could dance all day in bliss, that will not hinder one from having an ego problem.
It all depends on a quantity of life experiences, and the upbringing.
If for instance, a child is never confronted with any necessity to show any form of “humbleness”, in otherwords “ has been spoilt,
then that person will demonstrate a profound lack of objectiveness in their adulthood.
Such people will simply not understand or want to understand why others don’t feel as they do, why others aren’t as blissful, or have so many problems, that’s ignorance, another characteristic of the ego.
Q: if I am deeply depressed, will that make the ego stronger or weaker ?
A:
any negative emotions will help to feed the ego, any negativity in general,
but important to remember is, that by understanding negativity, and integrating that understanding of contrast between Light and dark, will help one to be less vulnerable to any negative energies or situations, and not fall into “victimhood”,
no longer to be influenced by negativity,
and therefore will help to dissipate the ego into the nothingness it is,
if you are reading this, because you have searched for information that will help you understand, then you are already on the correct path to your evolution.
This information is only one very small piece of all the answers,
you will find more answers to your question in many other sources,
and the integrity and Love within yourself makes it easier to understand such information,
and you’ll know easier where to find more information that you “will” be searching for.
Peace be with you on your Life Journey,
Welcome to your Evolution!
Davaron
22 April 2008 (updated 2012)
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